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Jan 29 2009

Thursday Thankfulness

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I very nearly missed that it was Thursday; I was somehow running a day behind!  Anyway today’s gratitude:

I am thankful that whatever virus or germy thing is attacking my body, it’s being held at bay and hasn’t knocked me out completely.  It would probably be wise to get to a doctor since I’ve probably jinxed myself by writing that.

I am thankful that Sesame Street has never wavered in its quality or entertainment value.  Gus and MM are watching now - Pre School Musical - and I don’t feel the need to beat my head against the wall (unlike when I watch Blues Clues).  Sesame Street rocks.

I am thankful that today is only a school delay day and not a full snow day.  Gus really needs to go to school and get some of his energy channeled into something more productive than building structures out of furniture or testing the recliner to see just how much force it can stand before snapping.  I think he has a possible career in quality control.  Or demolition.  Or comedy.  Or gymnastics.  Good to know he’s got options.

Must run now - I totally did jinx myself.

Please share your thankfulness in the comment section and have a great day.

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Jan 15 2009

Thursday Thankfulness

abuse, acceptance, Asperger's, autism, discipline, meltdowns, news, problem behavior, school, snow days

Today I am particularly thankful.  It’s a frosty 12 degrees with a windchill of -6.  I despise the cold above all other things, so why am I so grateful today?

1. For starters, the cold and light snow we got last night meant a 2 hour school delay this morning.  Usually, that would make me groan, but not today!  Delay meant that  a) I had to cancel my client and b)  no bus stop.  Both of which translate to me not having to be out in the cold.  I did have to clean & move my car, but it was a small price to pay in order to be able to stay home near a blazing fire.

2. I am thankful that our pellet stove is (knock on wood) in good working order today!  It’s a pain to have to clean every morning, but it is rather toasty in here, and for only the same cost as it would be to run a fan.  Gus loves it too, and he’s gotten pretty good about being near it for warmth without being unsafe.

3. On a more serious note, I am thankful that Gus has never been in a situation where anyone’s felt the need to physically restrain him.  I came across the story of  8 year old Evelyn Towry yesterday, and it tied my stomach in knots for the rest of the night.  There is something seriously wrong when a group of adults can’t think of any other means of handling a situation with a child that young - a child with known disabilities - that don’t involve physically restraining the child.  Clearly the school is in need of some education.  Best wishes to Evelyn and her family.

Chime in and share what you’re thankful for today.

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Jan 08 2009

Thursday Thankfulness

Asperger's, autism, creative kids, noise sensitivity, school, sensory integration disorder, snow days, thankfulness

Thankfully, the weather has cooperated and everyone is back in school today!  That means I can actually make my post at a reasonable time.  So this week, I am thankful:

  • For only having one casualty of the school cancellation yesterday: our trampoline.  DH made the mistake of jumping on it with MM and the rest is history (so is the trampoline).  But it could have been worse.  There was a sort of chair sculpture, very reminiscent of the one in Poltergeist II, that could have been a real disaster.  Gus was feeling particularly creative, but oddly he was not the destroyer yesterday.
  • For being able to go work with my prenatal yoga client today.  After 2 weeks of Holiday break followed by school delays and cancellations, I really needed to get away for some adult time.
  • For Gus learning how to meet some of his own needs even if he can’t always express them.  This morning, MM got a bad splinter stuck deep in her finger.  As soon as Gus heard this, he started looking for hiding places, because he knew she was going to be crying at some point.  When he realized his first hiding spot wasn’t getting him far away enough, he went up to his room, closed the door, and got into another of his favorite hideaways.  He’s grown enough to be proactive about avoiding the things that disturb him instead of waiting until he’s at the edge of his rope!  Go Gus!

What are you thankful for today?

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Dec 19 2008

First Snow

Asperger's, autism, Christmas, Holidays, parenting, practical strategies, progress, sensory integration disorder, singing, snow days, winter activities

As I watched Gus diving on top of the other two kids in the snow tube, I reflected on how far he’s come in the past few years in terms of handling the snow.  It’s always been an interesting paradox: he hates things that are wet, especially clothing, but he loves the snow.  There was a time when he would refuse to keep gloves on, but his hands would freeze.  Snow days used to be fun, but tough.

I’ve learned to bundle him up enough so that he stays dry, and I don’t skimp on the winter gear.  Lands End is my favorite for winter wear, especially their snow boots.  Being that I also have trouble with being cold and/or wet, I can personally attest that we have never had a problem with any of their products.

Aside from waterproof boots and gloves, a few minor things have made snow play a little easier:

  • hats with ear flaps and hooded jackets
  • jacket that comes just below the hips
  • neck gaiters instead of a scarf - they don’t come undone, they’re soft, and they aren’t bulky
  • snow bibs instead of just pants, and the ones that have gaiters to go inside snow boots

I also make sure that Gus puts his mittens on before his jacket.  That way we extend the amount of time it takes for snow to start getting inside them.  Once the snow gets in, we’re pretty much done.  And, while all these things seem fairly obvious, it took me years of drama to figure them out, especially since I wasn’t much into snow growing up.  I wouldn’t be now if it wasn’t for my kids.

We had a pretty good time today, and when they came in, Gus was almost completely dry, except for the edges of his shirt sleeves (snow got in the mittens eventually).  MM was another story, but she all but buried herself in the snow, loving every second of it.  She was relatively dry all things considered.

When we came in, the kids both wanted something hot.  Of course, Gus hates hot cocoa or tea.  But today he asked for hot cocoa (big shocker) so I obliged.  Now, I almost never give him chocolate, but we found a hot cocoa without caffeine called Hershey’s Goodnight Kisses, which I bought for the express purpose of letting him try it.  He did and still hates hot cocoa.  So we settled for hot apple juice and called it a day.

The snow is still falling, and I expect it will for the rest of the night.  Tomorrow, we’ll probably try snow-tubing down one of the big hills, and maybe we’ll even get to build a snow man.  I’m sure Gus will treat us to a song - he’s been big on the Christmas carols for a few days now.  Funny how a foot of snow can really make things fall into place during this season - even for those of us who have sensory issues with the cold, wet stuff.

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Dec 18 2008

Thursday Thankfulness

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It’s that time again!  I very nearly missed the fact that it is in fact Thursday.  Forgive me - I lose track sometimes!

Anyway, on to thankfulness…

I am thankful that the snowstorm that we are being threatened with is coming tomorrow instead of today even though that means Gus’s teachers won’t get their gifts until after Christmas.  But not having school canceled today allowed me to get some deadlines met, which is a BIG plus!

I am thankful that we did not decide to bake for Gus’s teacher gifts because they wouldn’t have lasted the two weeks that he will be out of school.

I am thankful that I don’t have to fight with Gus over homework for the next two weeks.  I think we were both a little done with it and the break will be much appreciated.  I’m going to try some online learning software if he’s open to trying something new to see how he does with them.

Finally, thanks so much to Barbara at Goal for the Green for two awards:

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I’ll pass these along in tomorrow’s post.  Thanks for reading, and please post your thankful thoughts in a comment!

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