It’s that fun time of year (at least in the northeastern U.S.) when the weather starts getting confused - does it want to be springlike or glacial? The fluctuations combined with the longing for spring can wreak havoc and sickness abounds. It’s hard enough when any child comes down with what a local doctor has recently referred to as “the Crud,” but when a child on the autism spectrum falls sick, there can be extra challenges involved.
Not Appearing Sick…At Least At First
Parents can usually tell when their kids are not quite up to snuff, even their pre-or-non-verbal children, because there are usually signs in addition to the obvious things (i.e. runny noses). For example, when a child has an ear infection, they will typically tug on the painful ear(s). But what if the child tends to have an undersensitivity to certain sensations? Gus used to get ear infections all the time, but often we wouldn’t know it until they were advanced because it took a long time for him to feel and show discomfort. Even the absence of fever isn’t always foolproof. In college, I was bordering on pneumonia and only had a temperature of 99 degrees. While most people get concerned when temps hit 101 or 102, but 100 for me is the “serious” benchmark. Luckily, my mom paid attention to my behavior got me to a doctor when necessary even when the numbers didn’t seem to warrant it.
So watch for other signs of sickness: changes in behavior or eating, lethargy, sleeplessness that seems out of the ordinary (which can be extra tough if you have a child who doesn’t sleep well to begin with). Basically, be extra vigilant at the “cruddy” times of year.
Can’t or Won’t Take Medicine
A friend of ours has a daughter who’s been battling “the crud” for a week now. Medicine is a problem because the child has oral sensory issues. This means that certain tastes or textures are incredibly aversive to her. When a child has this type of difficulty, getting her to take any type of fever reducer (which I know some people are opposed to anyway) or other necessary medicines can be a battle.
For coughs or runny noses, I’ve heard from several doctors that it might be better to just let your child’s body work without the interference of decongestants or cough syrups. However, if your child is incredibly uncomfortable, you could try a cool-air humidifier or a warm air vaporizer. Even being in a steamy bathroom for a while can help clear congestion.
Sore throats can be soothed with lemon and honey, but if that isn’t happening, try warm fluids flavored to your child’s liking. Cold foods can also be soothing, but you might want to avoid the ice cream as dairy tends to be a bad idea when mucus is involved. Frozen fruit or fruit juice, even plain ice, can be helpful.
For fever, if Tylenol or Ibuprofin are not options, you can try cool baths or cool compresses at the wrists, armpits or groin. If the fever spikes and you need to get it down quickly, or if the other methods aren’t working, you could also try Feverall, which is acetaminophen in suppository form (unless your child can’t take acetaminophen). We’ve always been told that for a fever 101 or higher, to call the pediatrician.
I’ve heard of other methods of fever reduction, like egg whites on the feet, but I can’t vouch for them.
The main point is, at these times of the year when germs seem to be extra active, be vigilant and pay a little closer attention to your child’s cues that may be indicating illness.
I’m no doctor, and these are just my observations as a mother. If your child appears ill, it should go without saying that you should contact your pediatrician. But if you have any tricks up your sleeve for when your special needs child is sick, by all means, please share.
