My Autism Insights

A good friend (B. you are made of awesome!) linked me to a wonderful radio program produced by American Public Media entitled Being Autistic, Being Human.  The program runs about an hour, but there’s a two-hour version of the uncut interview available on the site as well.  In this segment, Krista Tippett interviews Paul Collins and Jennifer Elder(Different Like Me: My Book of Autism Heroes; Autistic Planet), both authors and parents to Morgan, an eight-year-old boy with autism.

Many elements of this show resonated with me and mirrored much of my experience not only with Gus, but with members of both sides of our family.  Paul talks here and in his book, Not Even Wrong: Adventures in Autism, about how many ‘traits’ often run through families of individuals with autism even if those family members don’t present with full blown autism.   I actually had a laugh this morning at an incident, fairly typical for me, at my daughter’s school.

I had gone to the school book fair and gotten completely engrossed with looking at all the shelves (books = crack for me) when I realized that everyone had stopped moving.  The Pledge of Allegiance was being said over the loudspeaker and I hadn’t even heard it.  By the time I stopped to place my hand over my heart, it was almost done.  Paul speaks about this kind of single-minded focus that is common among people with autism and their families, who are often found in, “solitary professions which require deep focus and abstraction.” He had mentioned that when he gets involved in his work it is like turning his ears off. I regularly see this level of intense focus and inability to switch gears in my family, and I’m sure my mom has loads of stories of how rude I can be when I get interrupted from something I’m engaged in.

I was struck by the couple’s candidness about when they first learned of Morgan’s diagnosis.  “His normal was normal to them,” and they really didn’t have any other frame of reference, something that I blogged about just a few days before hearing this show.

Another aspect of the show that touched me was Paul’s discussion of his decision to put Morgan on medication.  This has been a topic that’s come up again and again regarding Gus, and I’m sure it hasn’t been put to rest for good.  He wrote an article about what finally helped him resign himself to the choice: The Vanishing Boy.

While it doesn’t make the edited version, during the interview the question of controversies within the autism community was addressed.  Jennifer explained that she is not of a mind to want to find a “cure” for autism.  “Before we eliminate this, what are we going to lose?” And quoting Paul’s book,

“Autists are described by others — and by themselves — as aliens among humans. But there’s an irony to this, for precisely the opposite is true. They are us, and to understand them is to begin to understand what it means to be human. Think of it: a disability is usually defined in terms of what is missing. … But autism … is as much about what is abundant as what is missing, an overexpression of the very traits that make our species unique. Other animals are social, but only humans are capable of abstract logic. The autistic outhuman the humans, and we can scarcely recognize the result.”

Without the particular abilities of autism, the world might not have had any Newtons or Einsteins, Andy Kaufmans or Andy Warhols.  Hopefully, with shows like Being Autistic, Being Human,  the conversation may start to change more toward how people with the challenges and abilities of autism can be better accepted and integrated into society instead of feared and excluded.

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